- Thinking of sex as taboo and not talking about it openly,
- Population explosion leading people to hide behind the crowd and do ghastly deeds,
- Complete absence of morality in men, as men are treated as Gods in Hindu society and hence never preached on morality by their parents the way they preach to the girl sibling,
- Illiteracy leading to animalistic instinct (by the way, even animals don’t mate with small ones),
- Alcohol and drug abuse leading to loss of judgement and loss of reasoning, sense etc.,
- Too much importance to the male species by the family,
- Female foeticide, leading to absence of a compatible sexual partner,
- Mental illness of these men, which is supressed and hidden due to societal pressure,
- Lack of civic education,
- Illiterate and unreasonable parents,
- Family background and culture during their formative years…
In any case none of the above statements can justify any of such horrendous crimes. Human beings are called the most evolved and best species of all. But I see that even the animals follow rules, culture and have principles. Men have completely lost it.
I have many examples when Indian men made me feel really uncomfortable while travelling alone. To cite a few, let me tell you about the Indian men and how they behave in international flights, especially the ones going to Thailand. Indian male’s behaviour really makes me feel ashamed and very insecure. Once you enter the aircraft, you would see, huge bellied Indian men shoving up the oversized luggage into the overhead cabinets of the flight. Then they won’t sit down on their respective seats. They are always accompanied by loud and talkative “friends” with whom they would talk endlessly till the aircraft moves. The air hostess would request them to take their seats so that other passengers can get in and take their seats. But who would listen to them? God forbid, if it is a return flight from Bangkok, these smelly Indian men think of themselves as the kings of India!
Then the time to serve alcohol and beverages comes! Can anybody be as greedy them? There should be a different word for these alcohol crazy men! They would always request the airhostess to pour them more alcohol than the allowed limit. If she doesn’t, they pester the air hostess so much that she avoids coming towards that aisle altogether till food is served. They wouldn’t attend to me or any other passenger in that area even if I need a glass of plain water. I don’t blame these airhostesses. If I was in their place, I would have done the same. But what a shame!
Post these drinks, they would lose some sense and start talking aloud or snore. Indians are becoming the butt of ridicule in all international flights mostly owing to their lack of manners. More so in the South East Asian sectors.
Why are these men so barbaric? Don’t they know how to behave in a civilized manner? Why can’t they just have one drink, have their food and shut up and let others also enjoy the flight? Why can’t they be at the least a little considerate of the fellow female passengers?
Ironically, when these same men are posted in a foreign land, they behave themselves, because they are scared of the law and order, police and rules abroad. Almost one third of Singapore’s population is Indian. They are following rules (so I have observed) and they behave themselves there. Why can’t they do the same here in India? Why can’t they respect women back home?
I wonder if the following measures can solve this problem of Indian men and bring down the increased crime rate on women in India:
- Legalise prostitution,
- Take serious measures not to control but to stop population explosion,
- Let people talk about sex openly,
- Reduce airfares to Bangkok,
- Have bars or pubs where they can pick willing women for sex for whom they don’t have to pay,
- Eradicate poverty by generating more employment opportunities,
- Focus on vocational education for men,
- Education for expecting parents on how to bring up their children,
- Compulsory television programmes on every channel on civic sense and responsibility of citizens,
- Limit on alcohol consumption and sale,
- Extreme exemplary punishments to offenders,
- Education for men on cultural values and how women are treated worldwide.
The list can go on. We all know we can stop these incidences if we sincerely try. A little alertness, cooperation from police, the government and social institutions can bring a change in the situation. Let us try.